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This One’s for Me

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“This One’s for Me”

By Smita Bhatnagar | FITTR Coach
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Fitness After 40: Choosing Strength Over Approval

There wasn’t anything extraordinary about that day.
Same gym.
Same water bottle.
Same weights.
And the same woman—me.

But somewhere in the middle of my workout, I caught a glimpse of my reflection.

My hair was tied up, a bit of sweat was glistening on my forehead, and my eyes—oh, they looked focused.
Determined.
Grounded.

And right then, I paused. Not to catch my breath. But to take in the quiet pride that surged within me.
I smiled.

Not because of how I looked.
But because of how far I’ve come.

I Wasn’t Always This Woman

This version of me—the woman who walks confidently into the gym, knows exactly how to warm up, how to lift, how to train—did not exist a few years ago.

There was a time I stepped into the gym feeling completely out of place.
I didn’t know what machines to use.
I didn’t know how to hold a barbell, what a deadlift meant, or even how much I should push myself.

But more than that, I didn’t trust myself.
I doubted my abilities, my goals, my worth.
I looked around, silently asking: Do I even belong here?

The Turning Point

Like many women in their 40s, I reached a stage in life where the noise around me started to drown out my own voice.

Career, family, responsibilities, expectations—everything pulled me in different directions.
Fitness wasn’t even on the list.

Until one day, I chose to make space for myself.

Not to prove anything to anyone.
Not to shrink myself into unrealistic beauty standards.
But to grow.
To reconnect with the woman I had lost in the busyness of life.

Redefining Progress — It’s Not Always About the PRs

Let me be honest:
There were no personal bests in today’s workout.
No record-breaking lifts.
No fancy moves.

But I showed up.
I moved with purpose.
I trained with focus.
And I walked out with a quiet strength that no medal or number can measure.

We often think that success in fitness is loud — before/after pictures, major transformations, or dramatic changes.
But sometimes, the biggest win is simply consistency.

It’s in showing up on the days when no one’s watching.
It’s in pushing through even when motivation is low.
It’s in smiling at your own reflection and thinking, “I’m proud of you.”

The Shift — From Seeking Validation to Finding Self-Worth

There was a time I worked out to impress.
To fit into a certain size.
To get compliments.
To feel “seen.”

But not anymore.

Now, I train because it makes me feel alive.
Because I love the strength I feel when I lift.
Because I’ve realized that fitness is not just about aesthetics — it’s about agency.

I’m no longer chasing applause.
I’m building resilience.

Strength Is a Statement — Not Just a Look

At 47, I feel stronger than I ever have in my life.
And I’m not just talking about physical strength.

Yes, I can lift heavier.
Yes, my endurance has improved.
But the most powerful transformation has been mental and emotional.

I now walk into the gym with clarity.
I understand my body better.
I respect rest, recovery, and nutrition as much as reps and sets.

Fitness has taught me boundaries, patience, focus, and grace.

Fitness Is Not a Destination — It’s a Relationship

You don’t arrive at “fit.”
You grow with it, evolve with it, fall in love with the process.

It won’t always be perfect.
There will be injuries, fatigue, setbacks, and plateaus.
But every day you choose to move, lift, and nourish yourself—you’re honoring your potential.

And for women over 40, this is especially important.
Because we often put ourselves last.
But our health, our energy, our confidence—these matter too.

My Message to Every Woman Reading This

Whether you’re 27 or 47…
Whether you’re just starting or starting over…

Remember this:
You don’t need a perfect plan.
You don’t need the best gym clothes.
You don’t even need to be “fit” to begin.

You just need to start.
And make this one—for YOU.

Let “I deserve to feel strong” be your why.
Let “this one’s for me” be your commitment.

Final Thoughts – You’re Worth the Effort

Strength doesn’t always come with applause.
Sometimes, it comes in those quiet, sweat-drenched moments when no one is watching.
When you realize:
“I didn’t do this to impress anyone.
I did this to meet the woman I knew I could become.”

So, here’s to you.
To your journey.
To your courage.
To your strength.

Because fitness is not a competition.
It’s a celebration of self.

Let’s Begin Together

Want to reclaim your strength?
Join me through FITTR, where science meets real-life transformation.
Let’s build a plan that works for you, not against you.